Ben Affleck is ready for Jennifer Lopez to back off when it comes to his kids! Perezcious readers know that the pair successfully blended their families during their two-year marriage. They got along with each other's kids, and the children became good friends. It was like one big happy family! Even after the divorce, the pop star remains super close with Ben's children, Violet, 20, Fin, 17, and Samuel, 13! Jennifer and Violet maintain a strong bond to this day, and the Let's Get Loud singer is also close with Samuel, taking him on multiple shopping trips last year.