MEGA TheMegaAgency.com Jennifer Garner is famously discreet about her love life - especially when it comes to the father of her children, Ben Affleck. But in one new interview, the 13 Going on 30 actress shared some rare vulnerable insight into just how difficult her divorce from Affleck truly was, including how she shielded herself from any tabloid fodder at the time. "You have to be smart about what you can and can't handle, and I could not handle what was out there," Garner told Marie Claire UK. "But what was out there was not what was hard. The fact of it is what was hard.