Jennifer Lopez has a whole new outlook on love following her divorce from Ben Affleck! The singer opened up about her new dating requirements during Saturday night's rendition of her new Las Vegas residency. Reflecting on her 1999 hit, If You Had My Love, she expressed: "When I first sang it, I was very young. And I sang it with a lot of hope." Related: Ben's Exes J.
Lo & Gwyneth To Confront Each Other After THAT '90s Drama?! But things changed over the years: "But I've also sang it over the years, I've sang it while I was sad. And I've sang it when I was happy. But now, today, you know how I sing it? I sing it in power." Addressing her new relationship dealbreakers, J.
Lo dished: "Because the truth is, if you wanted to have my love, you would have to earn it. You would have to treat me right. You would have to respect me. You'd have to accept me for all that I am. You'd have to love me if you wanted my love." Damn! From what we've heard about what went wrong in her marriage, this seems like a total dig at Ben! Noting love is "a complicated thing," the 56-year-old mother of two revealed a hard truth she's learned over the years, sharing: "You can't have love without heartbreak. You can't. That's what you sign up for." Oof. That's sad, but we see what she means! She knows more about heartbreak than most, unfortunately! See more from the show (below): View this post on Instagram A post shared by John pascarella (@jpasc24) BTW, these new comments come after she took a swipe at her marriage to the actor during opening night of her residency last week. She's really using her time in the spotlight to drag that romance! Reactions, y'all?? Sound OFF in the comments (below)! [Image via Oscar Gonzalez/MEGA/WENN] The post More Ben Affleck Shade?? Jennifer Lopez Reveals Romance Dealbreakers After Divorce: 'You'd Have To...' appeared first on Perez Hilton.