Jennifer Lopez has a whole new outlook on love following her divorce from Ben Affleck! The singer opened up about her new dating requirements during Saturday night's rendition of her new Las Vegas residency. Reflecting on her 1999 hit, If You Had My Love, she expressed: "When I first sang it, I was very young. And I sang it with a lot of hope." Related: Ben's Exes J.Lo & Gwyneth To Confront Each Other After THAT '90s Drama?! But things changed over the years: "But I've also sang it over the years, I've sang it while I was sad. And I've sang it when I was happy.