After surviving the "messy middle" of her life, Sarah Shahi is using that experience to help others navigate divorce, career challenges, childhood trauma and more. In 2020, the great equalizer of the pandemic tested the immune systems, emotional well-being and intimate relationships of regular folks and celebrities alike, leaving in its wake wreckage but also clarity. For Shahi, 45, that meant divorce after more than a decade of marriage to Steve Howey, and the prospect of starting life all over again.