Venita Aspen is reminding fans she's human by apologizing to Southern Charm's Molly O'Connell after gossiping about her vaginal surgery on reality TV. "I made a careless comment about Molly," Venita, 32, began her Instagram Story statement shared on Thursday, December 18. "No matter the context, the comment was not my place to share. I understand that." She explained, "I did apologize right away, and if that apology came across too casual, I think it was because I didn't want to draw more attention to a situation where she may have already felt uncomfortable or exposed.