Watch: Jesse Metcalfe Reacts to Scheana Shay's Memoir Detailing Past RomanceJesse Metcalfe's girlfriend has never been desperate for information on his past. The Desperate Housewives alum, who dated Scheana Shay in the early 2000s, shared that his girlfriend Helene Immel isn't bothered by the Vanderpump Rules star's revelations about their past relationship in her recent memoir, My Good Side. As Jesse told People in an interview published July 31, "She wasn't even affected by it.