Watch: Mormon Wives' Jessi Ngatikaura Admits to Affair Amid Separation From Husband Jordan NgatikauraContent warning: This story discusses sexual assault and abuse. Jessi Ngatikaura is opening up about an extremely painful memory. During the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives season three reunion special, Jessi praised costar Mikayla Matthews' journey on the show, including seeing her work through her trauma in the most recent season after sharing she had experienced sexual abuse as a child until she was 15 years old during season two.