Ray J. Paras Griffin/Getty Images for BET Ray J's life in the spotlight has been anything but predictable. Ever since he released his debut album Everything You Want in 1997, the singer has been making headlines for his personal and professional life. While music was his first avenue into Hollywood, the "Sexy Can I" singer found a whole new level of fame when he entered the world of reality TV with shows like For the Love of Ray J, Brandy and Ray J: A Family Business and Love & Hip Hop. "When I'm in real life, I'm just hella calm, I'm cool," Ray J told BuzzFeed in 2014.