What happened when one couple decided to try out an open relationship? It didn't end well... This month, a 37-year-old woman (not pictured above) took to the popular Reddit thread "Am I The A**hole" to ask for advice about a problem in her open relationship. She explained that she and her boyfriend (not pictured above), who is also 37, have been dating for over three years. According to the social media user, it is a "healthy," "independent" romance, and she doesn't "really have any complaints." However, what "startled" her was that he suddenly wanted a change earlier this year.