Scheana Shay considered warning Jesse Metcalfe about her memoir Scheana Shay didn't feel she needed to warn Jesse Metcalfe about her new memoir. 29 July 2025 Scheana Shay considered warning Jesse Metcalfe about his appearance in her new memoir - but she decided against it. Scheana Shay has opened up about her new memoir The 40-year-old reality star has discussed her romance with Jesse in My Good Side, her new memoir, but she didn't feel the need to give him any kind of warning.