Amaza Smith is spilling the piping hot tea about her sex life, including how many of her kids' "uncles" she's slept with - and if they're actually related. "There's so many uncles that I probably have banged, and my kids are like, 'Wait,'" Smith, 48, told Harry Jowsey during the Tuesday, November 4, episode of his "Boyfriend Material" podcast. Jowsey, 28, was totally caught off guard by Smith's confession, asking, "Wait, I'm sorry, your uncles?" The Selling Sunset star quickly clarified, "Not a real uncle," noting that she uses "uncle" as a term of endearment for certain men in her kids' lives. Selling Sunset's Amanza Addresses Cancer Scare, 'Public' Chrishell Feud "You know when you're close friends with somebody and [you're like], 'Uncle so and so. Uncle so and so,'" Smith explained of her verbiage. "There's, like, three 'Uncle So-and-So's that I've definitely had sex with." Smith laughed before confessing that her daughter, Noah, and son, Braker, are "now old enough" to question whether "everyone that's [an] uncle" is someone she's slept with. "I'm like no, no, no. Not everybody. Not uncle Brett," she joked. Courtesy of Amanza Smith/Instagram Smith rose to fame on Selling Sunset after making her Netflix debut during season 2 in 2020. Prior to the show, the real estate agent was married to former NFL player Ralph Brown from 2010 to 2012. The exes welcomed their daughter in 2009 and their son in 2011. While filming season 2 of the Netflix series, Brown, 47, went missing. According to Smith, her ex-husband dropped their kids off at school in Los Angeles in August 2019 and she never saw him again. While Smith filed a missing person report in 2019, she told E! News the following year that authorities informed her that Brown was "not a missing person because there was no sign of foul play." Smith exclusively told Us Weekly in February 2021 that she just wanted "answers" about why Brown left her alone with their kids and never looked back. Selling Sunset's Next Generation: See the Reality Stars' Family Photos "I want to know where you are for whatever reason - if you are mentally unstable or if you're on drugs. I can help get you rehabilitated so that my children can have the version of their father back that we all knew and loved," Smith said at the time, adding that Brown was an "amazing dad" before he went missing. "This sounds so morbid, but it's almost like if he had died and we knew about it and we found out ... you mourn it. It's that permanent. This is, like, open-ended. It's abandonment." Despite all the not knowing, Smith has remained focused on being the best mom possible. Us confirmed in September 2021 that Smith took her parenting responsibilities to the next level, winning sole legal and physical custody of her kids after taking legal action earlier in the year. The court also ruled that Brown has "no visitation" rights until he provides the proper information, including an updated contact address. 'Selling Sunset' Cast's Love Lives: Who the Netflix Stars Are Dating Off Screen "I'm relieved that this long process is over. It's been incredibly hard on me and especially the children," Smith exclusively told Us in a statement at the time. "We will never be 'over' the absence of their father, but hopefully we can move forward in a more positive way now that we are unhindered by the legal obstacles that prevented me from making the decisions that are best for us as a family of three." When it comes to moving on romantically, Smith told Jowsey on Tuesday that she is on dating apps but hasn't thought about a serious relationship. "Recently, I was in London and I was like, 'I think it's going to be easier for me to find somebody abroad,'" she said, noting that her matches always seem to live in another country. Smith also revealed what she's looking for in a partner, saying she wants someone who is "honest" has "some ambition" and is a non-smoker. "They have to like kids, or at least teenagers," she said with a laugh, adding that the man can "vape" but can't "smoke weed." She added that they also have to be "funny."