Diane Lane is sharing how being a mom to her daughter, Eleanor Lambert, helped shape her performance as matriarch Ellen Taylor in new psychological thriller Anniversary. "Once you are a parent, you don't feel like you have to pretend as much," Lane, 60, exclusively told Us Weekly at the film's New York City premiere on Tuesday, October 21. "I understand the need for each generation to have its own set of identity that feels as though it cannot be understood by the previous one. So with great patience and hope as a parent, you're going to be able to bridge the quote on quote 'divide.