Of all the inflammatory isms out there, the most shocking one for a Golden Bachelor to be accused of is ageism. That's what happened to Mel Owens, 66, in a preseason controversy, so you might expect him to be a little defensive on the subject. But when the former NFL player sat down with Us, he was remarkably relaxed, maintaining the off-the-cuff energy that may have gotten him in hot water in the first place.