Matt James' ex-girlfriend Rachael Kirkconnell raised eyebrows when she said she hadn't had sex in "years" - but the former Bachelor had been candid about his lack of intimacy before. Less than two months after his season 25 of The Bachelor came to an end in 2021, James, now 33, revealed that he kept his fantasy suite dates PG. Instead, he recalled getting to know his three finalists - Kirkconnell, now 29, Bri Springs and Michelle Young - on a deeper level. "I can't speak for anybody but myself, but I think the women appreciated it," he shared in a profile with WSJ at the time.