Buckle up, Bachelor Nation, because Rachael Kirkconnell is dropping some unexpected commentary! The former Bachelor contestant just shared a bombshell on the Extra Dirty podcast that has fans doing a double take. After her shocking split from Matt James earlier this year, Rachael is redefining what romance - and sex - looks like in her life. For one, she revealed that she now identifies as demisexual. But even more than that, she says it's been years since she's had sex. YEARS!!! Related: Lori Loughlin Likely To Get NOTHING In Divorce! Let's get into it.