Jennifer Lopez's ex-husband has a SCATHING message for her. Earlier this week, the Jenny from the Block singer made a heartbreaking confession on The Howard Stern Show that she feels she's never been "truly loved." The Kiss of the Spider Woman star revealed on Wednesday: "What I've learned is it's not that I'm not lovable, it's that they're not capable. They don't have it in them. They need to appreciate the little person inside of them. They need to love them.