It wasn't too long ago that women were shamed for aging - told they looked "old" if they dared to embrace their gray hairs. In fact, I never saw the women in my own family lean into it until well into their 70s or 80s. My Abuela Celeste didn't start rocking her grays until her 70s, after my grandfather passed away. Before that, she always sported these beautiful ginger tones that looked stunning against her olive skin. My mom didn't actually start graying until her 50s, and even now, at 66, she's still not quite ready to make the plunge of going fully gray.