Jennifer Lopez is looking back on her past marriages and divorces with a new lens. "Do you think you've truly been loved?" Lopez, 56, was asked by Howard Stern during a visit to SiriusXM's Howard Stern Show on Wednesday, October 15. The singer candidly replied, "No," after a brief pause. "What I learned, it's not that I'm not lovable - it's that they're not capable. ... They don't have it in them," Lopez continued. "And they gave me what they had. They gave me all of it, every time. All the rings, all the things I could ever want. The houses, the rings, the marriage. All of it.