Watch: Selena Gomez Shares Hope of Becoming a Mom "One Day" After Benny Blanco WeddingIt can hard for Selena Gomez to enjoy life's happy moments. The Only Murders in the Building star-a longtime mental health advocate-shared her surprising reaction to marrying Benny Blanco, explaining how her fears sometimes cloud her mindset. "I got married and then I was sobbing," Selena said at Fortune's Most Powerful Women conference Oct. 15, "'cause I was like, 'I'm gonna die the next day.