Ashlyn Robinette / People: Anthrax Drummer Charlie Benante Marries Singer Carla Harvey in 'Elegant' Wedding with a 'Rock and Roll Twist' (Exclusive) - The celebration, which was officiated by Gene Simmons, featured an Elvis Presley impersonator, showgirls and a performance by Benante - Charlie Benante and Carla Harvey married in Las Vegas on Oct. 12