Elise Nelson / Us Weekly: Bethenny Frankel Tells Swifties to 'Get a F***ing Hobby': 'Taylor Swift Is Not Your Whole Identity' - Bethenny Frankel has had enough of the divide between Swifties and non-Swifties. - "The polarization and divisiveness of Taylor Swift is like Democrat vs. Republican," Frankel, 54, said in a TikTok video on Tuesday, October 7.