Jon Gosselin is firing off more damning claims at his ex-wife and her not-so-new man. As we've been following, Kate Gosselin is apparently dating Steve Neild - the Gosselin family's former bodyguard and the man rumored to have played a role in Jon and Kate's divorce. Jon has gone on record to speculate on the length of their relationship... While Kate claims they've only been together for a year, Jon firmly believes she and Steve had an affair while still married, and that they've actually been together for 17 years.