Ben Higgins knows the day will come when his daughter Winnie discovers a little show called The Bachelor. "I understand how my days of changing diapers will quickly move into Winnie going off to school and making friends and going to sleepovers and learning to drive and being asked out on her first day," Higgins, 36, wrote in the expanded version of his book Alone in Plain Sight. "Someday she'll probably watch season 20 of The Bachelor. I hope that if she ever watches it, she'll say, 'Dad, you were so cool when you were young' other than, 'Oh my gosh, Dad.