Bachelor in Paradise alum Carly Waddell has ended her engagement to Todd Allen Tressler. "I'm always real with you guys, so I'm going to be real with you now. I'm not wearing a ring," Waddell, 39, said in a Wednesday, October 1, Instagram video. "I did break off my engagement about a month ago. We are living in a new city." She continued, "It's not a decision that I personally made overnight. It was really bad timing because the kids had just started school and sports and all the things. You know what? It is what it is.