For the record: I love men. But fellas, you don't always make it easy. Whether it's the leaders of local He-Man Woman-Haters Clubs running for office, to the rise of the so-called incel movement and lingering, outdated stereotypes that leaves Us women shouldering the majority of the household and parenting responsibilities while still pulling a 9 to 5, the sheer pervasiveness of toxic masculinity can make admiring you gentlemen, even from afar, difficult.