Penn Badgley wasn't feeling so hot while filming sex scenes for You - but he definitely was bothered! In the new book Crushmore: Essays on Love, Loss, and Coming-of-Age, the 38-year-old got candid in an essay where he chatted about filming a sex scene for Netflix's You. In an excerpt for Vulture, the actor talks about how letting the audience in on something so intimate - you know, since he had to stare right into the camera for this particular scene - was SO not as sexy as the end result! We mean, if you've seen any thirst edits of Joe Goldberg, you've definitely seen this part over and over...