Selena Gomez and Benny Blanca. Allen Berezovsky/Getty Images Selena Gomez and her fiancé, producer Benny Blanco, officially announced their relationship via Instagram in December 2023. "He is my absolute everything in my heart," the "Wolves" singer wrote in an Instagram comment at the time. "He has been the best thing that's ever happened to me." Hints of the couple's relationship were dropped on the Selena + Chef: Home for the Holidays TV special when the pop star revealed she had a date right after filming the December 21 episode.