Akon's wife files for divorce Akon's wife, Tomeka Thaim, has filed for divorce just days before their 29th wedding anniversary. 13 September 2025 Akon's wife has filed for divorce, just days before their 29th wedding anniversary. Akon's wife has filed for divorce Tomeka Thaim submitted paperwork to end her marriage to the 52-year-old musician on 11 September, citing irreconcilable differences, though she listed their date of separation as "TBD (to be determined".