They may design houses for a living, but the last thing Erin and Ben Napier plan to do is curate an elaborate birthday celebration for their kids. In a joint interview with Today.com published on Tuesday, September 9, the Home Town stars admitted they're decidedly "anti-giant birthdays" when it comes to their daughters, Helen, 7, and Mae, 4. Why? Well, as Ben, 41, explained, their school requires every child in the classroom to be invited to parties, leading to chaotic events with "100 kids running around, losing their minds.