Benny Blanco makes me feel normal, says Selena Gomez Selena Gomez has opened up about her relationship with Benny Blanco. 9 September 2025 Benny Blanco makes Selena Gomez feel "very normal". Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are set to tie the knot The 33-year-old star is one of the most famous, and most photographed, women in the world - but her fiance helps Selena to remain grounded. The brunette beauty told Allure: "I appreciate his heart, his kindness, his quirks ... He's one of the most grounding people in my life, and he makes me feel very normal.