Olivia Wilde dating Caspar Jopling Olivia Wilde was spotted passionately kissing Ellie Goulding's ex-husband Caspar Jopling during a night out in London last week and the pair are believed to have started dating in July. 7 September 2025 Olivia Wilde is dating Caspar Jopling. Olivia Wilde dating Caspar Jopling The 41-year-old actress and director - whose last serious relationship was with Harry Styles - was spotted passionately kissing Ellie Goulding's ex-husband Caspar, 33, during a night out in London last week.