Kayla Nicole has a fiery message after ex-boyfriend Travis Kelce got engaged to Taylor Swift! On the same day the couple announced the happy news, the sports journalist posted a video to Instagram on Tuesday of Tracee Ellis Ross talking about the difference between happiness and joy. Kayla made it clear in her own caption that she is choosing joy amid her ex's massive life update: "Read about this concept years ago in a book called 'Choose Joy: Because Happiness Isn't Enough.' I aspire! So so good.