Watch: Influencer Hailey Okula's Husband Says Pain Only Grows "Deeper" Nearly 3 Weeks After Her DeathHailey Okula's husband is sharing vulnerable insight into an extremely difficult chapter. Five months after the influencer died while giving birth to her and Matt Okula's son Crew, the firefighter shared an update on where he is at in his grieving journey. "We're coming up on 5 months without Hailey," Matt wrote in an Aug. 27 Instagram post, alongside a baby monitor video of him feeding the couple's son. "I promised I'd be transparent and share the good and the bad, so here it is.