Kate Gosselin is blaming her ex-husband Jon Gosselin for her kids' trauma! The Jon & Kate Plus 8 star got VERY candid about her messy 2009 breakup in a new TikTok Live on Wednesday, in which she claimed she tried to make it "as peaceful as [she] possibly" could - but her ex wouldn't let things end easily! She said, per reports: "A lot of things happened that I could not control that did not turn out well for my kids." Kate and Jon share 24-year-old twins Madelyn and Cara and 21-year-old sextuplets Aaden, Joel, Collin, Leah, Hannah, and Alexis.