Travis Kelce's ex-girlfriend Kayla Nicole reposted a video about choosing "joy" hours after the NFL player announced his engagement to Taylor Swift. Nicole, 33, shared a video of Tracee Ellis Ross via her Instagram Story on Tuesday, August 26, where the actress, 52, talked about the difference between joy and happiness. "I think joy is different from happiness," Ross said in the clip. "I feel like happiness is something you can get at 7-Eleven and joy is something that you earn and work for and takes practice. I feel like joy has legs. I feel like joy has feet. I feel like joy has roots.