Article continues below advertisementKayla Nicole shared a message the same day her ex-boyfriend Travis Kelce announced his engagement to Taylor Swift. Nicole, 33, shared a video of actress Tracee Ellis Ross talking about "choosing joy" via her Instagram Stories on Tuesday, August 26.Article continues below advertisementKayla Nicole Chooses 'Joy' Over HappinessSource: MEGAKayla Nicole and Travis Kelce dated from 2017 to 2022."I work at it. I think joy is different from happiness," the Girlfriends alum, 52, said in the clip.