Ray J is coming clean on how his family, namely his older sister Brandy, feels about his public persona and online antics. "I just feel like I'm an embarrassment," said the "One Wish" singer. Source: Kevin Mazur / Getty During an appearance on Evelyn Lozada's "Drop The Lo" podcast with her daughter, Shaniece, the "One Wish" singer detailed the reason behind the breakdown in his relationship with his loved ones. "I love my sister, but I'm an embarrassment to them," he said. "I never wanted to be accepted, I just feel like I'm an embarrassment.