T.J. Holmes is now part of The Summer I Turned Pretty shipping war thanks to his daughter - but is he Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah? "I'm coming on now so you all can hear my continuation of a shouting match I've been having with a 12-year-old child for the past hour," Holmes, 48, who shares daughter Sabine with ex-wife Marilee Fiebig, said on the Thursday, August 21, episode of his "Amy and T.J." podcast. "What could I - a 48-year-old grown ass man be arguing with a 12-year-old child about? And allowing her to shout at me? This is what we're arguing over Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah.