Aubrey Plaza and Jeff Baena in 2016. (David Crotty/Patrick McMullan via Getty Images) For Aubrey Plaza, grief is like a gorge.On Tuesday's episode of Amy Poehler's Good Hang podcast, the actress opened up about how she's been coping with the grief of the death of her husband, Jeff Baena, earlier this year. Baena died by suicide on Jan. 3. He was 47 years old.