Instagram/Neil Patrick Harris & Dav Celebrity Neil Patrick Harris & David Burtka step out with twins Gideon & Harper at NYC gala, accept Luminary Award for family advocacy. May 14, 2026 AceShowbiz - Neil Patrick Harris and his husband David Burtka made a memorable family appearance alongside their 15-year-old twins at a notable New York City gala. The couple, known for their private approach to parenting, stepped out with their children Gideon and Harper for Family Equality's Night at the Pier Gala on May 11, marking a rare moment in the public eye for the family.