Jon Gosselin and Stephanie LeboCourtesy of Stephanie Lebo/Instagram Tap Here To Add Us Weekly As A Trusted Source Add as a preferred source on Google Jon Gosselin's secret to marital bliss the second time around might be in finding the "polar opposite" of his ex-wife, Kate Gosselin. During his wedding in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, on Sunday, November 23, Jon, 48, was asked what makes getting married for a second time different - and he was ready with an answer. "So I took the polar opposite person and I fell in love with her," he told Entertainment Tonight of Stephanie Lebo.