Tap Here To Add Us Weekly As A Trusted Source Add as a preferred source on Google Penn Badgley made a rare comment about his relationship with 16-year-old stepson Cassius. "Any real parent figure is always going to be cringe to some degree, definitely," Badgley, 39, said in Us Weekly's exclusive clip from Amanda Hirsch's "Not Skinny But Not Fat" podcast episode, dropping on Tuesday, November 11. "But, I think there's also - I am who I am, and I am not the most uncool stepparent you can have." Badgley subtly admitted he might actually be a "cool" stepdad.