James Van Der Beek's wife, Kimberly Van Der Beek, shared a heartfelt message about grief three months after the actor's death. "Yesterday was three months since we lost @vanderjames. To say I'm heartbroken is a severe understatement," Kimberly, 44, wrote via Instagram on Tuesday, May 12, alongside a series of photos from her life with James and their six children. "Words just don't capture what grief is." Kimberly explained, "The comforts of shock have worn off. The reality is settling in ... and I miss him. We all miss him. Yet, there is a different kind of magic in the air.