by Ellen DurneyBuzzFeedBuzzFeed StaffHi, I'm Ellen! If you're a heterosexual woman who knows the horrors of dating straight men, you've probably had moments when you've thought to yourself, Life would be so much easier if I were into women. Well, according to Victoria Monét, dating other women isn't that much easier. In fact, she said she finds it "worse." Billboard / Getty Images For context, Victoria has been single for the past 2.5 years since splitting from her long-term partner, John Gaines, with whom she shares a 5-year-old daughter, Hazel.