Article continues below advertisementPublic knowledge of Meghan Markle's romance with Prince Harry wasn't random, as she actually had a "careful plan" for "outing" their relationship, according to a royal insider. "In Meghan Markle's life, little happened by chance. Beyond the empathetic smile was a woman who disrupted spontaneity and liked to control every aspect of her life. In late September 2016, nothing was more important than her relationship with Harry," royal writer Tom Bower writes in his bestseller Revenge, according to a news outlet.