Hilary Duff and Mandy Moore wish that Ashley Tisdale French didn't make their issues public in her now-viral essay about leaving behind a "toxic" mom group. "They all feel blindsided and hurt by Ashley speaking out the way she did," a source exclusively tells Us Weekly of the circle of friends. "From their perspective, they believed the group was supportive and coming from a good place, and they never thought there was any bad intent behind how things played out.