Presley Ann/Getty Images for LACMA Tap Here To Add Us Weekly As A Trusted Source Add as a preferred source on Google Rita Wilson asked husband Tom Hanks for just two things during her cancer battle more than a decade ago. "I said to Tom, I'm like, 'OK, if something happens and I go first, I just have two requests,'" Wilson, 69, said during the Sound of a Woman: Rita Wilson in Conversation with Demi Moore event at New York City's 92NY on Tuesday, April 28, according to People. The Jingle All the Way star recalled telling Hanks, 69, that he "should be sad for a very, very long time.