Getty Images Carrie Underwood is sharing how she handles online hate. The 43-year-old Grammy winner and American Idol judge visited Cody Alan on SiriusXM's The Highway earlier this week for the Tuesday (May 6). Cody asked the singer about things she previously felt "stressed about" on stage that no longer concern her. "I mean, it's evolved over time. My time on American Idol, you know, we kind of had like message boards and things like that, and it was kind of the beginning of just meanness online, I guess," she reflected.