Getty Jamie-Lynn Sigler is opening up about her "toxic" relationship with ex-husband AJ Discala. The 44-year-old actress was married to the 55-year-old actor for just two years, after tying the knot in 2003. In her new memoir, "And So It Is...: A Memoir of Acceptance and Hope," the actress accused her ex of stealing money from her The Sopranos salary and transferring it to an account she had no access to.