Alyson Stoner's memoir, Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything, is out now. (Photo illustration: Yahoo News; photo: Maarten de Boer/Getty Images)Alyson Stoner's life radically and irreversibly changed in the aisle of a grocery store in 2002. A week after the MTV premiere of Missy Elliott's "Work It" music video, which featured a 9-year-old Stoner dancing for a few brief seconds in pigtails and a pink tracksuit, a stranger approached the child with a request.